Have you ever met someone with such a pretty face you couldn't help but flirt a little? Maybe they were in a relationship, but you flirted a bit anyways. Maybe you yourself were in a relationship and felt bad for the flirtations. But at the time, you simply couldn't help yourself. Now, imagine this happening with more than half the people you meet.
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If they looked like either, you really can't
be held responsible for any flirtation.
It's a knee-jerk reaction. |
So let's say you're someone who can't see even a moderately pretty face without the flirting coming out. Let's say people start to label you as "creepy" or some variation of the word. What can you do? It's who you are. I say, stop apologizing for who you are. So long as you're not actively engaging in any true creeper behaviour (eg. stealing underwear), I say, why try to change. A little flirting does a great deal for a person's ego/confidence. You're doing someone a favour by flirting with them, even if they don't flirt back. It makes them feel special and wanted. It makes them feel attractive. If that's a bad thing, I'll gladly go to jail for it.
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This man could file SO many lawsuits
if flirting were illegal...
against me alone. |
Now, I'm not one to be judgemental about looks. It takes A LOT to keep me from flirting if I'm in a flirtatious mood. To me, pretty much everyone is beautiful, and they deserve to know that. There have been occasions I may have toed the line of creepiness, but I usually know when to reign it in.
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If he wasn't so nice, he could file quite
the sexual harassment suit. |
All I want to say is, flirting is healthy. It's a great way to have a little fun, even if you're not in for a commitment. It's a great way to let someone know you think they're attractive, which certainly makes a person feel good about themselves. If that's so wrong, I don't want to know what right is.
Cheers!
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